Standards

Is it possible for realistic expectations to be TOO high? I don't want a relationship, right now - I'm enjoying my freedom and independence. However, a date, now and then isn't a "bother". In a relationship, I know what I'm looking for... and for now, I enjoy the "prowl" - commitment, however, will quell this. As I get older, I begin to wonder - "what's wrong with me?" So, the first area to dissect, of course, is my expectations. Only one item (on my list) has changed. This list is a sum of ideal characteristics - it's understood that I reflect these traits... eventually. oh well... meanderings...